So after all of the excitement Saturday for "Nuclear engineer" guy to meet my friends, it didn't happen. When I called in the evening as the time approached for my friends Thanksgiving dinner party, the phone went straight to voicemail. I was a little disappointed because I really like "Nuclear engineer" guy but I wasn't mad about it. I'm sure something had to have happened for his phone not to be on and for him to not cancel plans. His phone was also still off when I tried calling Sunday evening, which is odd since we had talked about work and having to be accessible 24 hours a day. I did send him a message through Match.com to see if everything was ok since that's the only other way I know of to get a hold of him. But I am definitely keeping positive since he seemed really into me and there were many indicators throughout the evening for future dates - and dates plural and not just a second one.
I've come up with some theories for the disappearance of "Nuclear engineer" guy this weekend:
1. He was really sick all day after being drunk on Friday. I think he was probably drunker than he usually gets on weekends, so this is a definite possibility that he was sick the rest of the weekend.
2. He left his phone in his friend's car after his friend picked us up on the Southside. However, he didn't mention losing his cell phone when I drove him to his car Saturday afternoon. But he was really hungover so maybe he didn't realize it.
3. Something bad happened - maybe he got into an accident because he was so hungover. I'm really hoping this isn't the case.
4. He turned off his phone and doesn't plan on responding back to me because he's either embarrassed because he was drunk on Friday (which I would hope not because we've all been really drunk around someone we just met and liked before even though it wasn't planned) or I did or said something the next day that changed his mind. I would hope this isn't the case though because he really seemed to like me and be interested in dating me.
Also, following up concern: he thinks that I was mad about Saturday and will now not call me. I would also hope this isn't the case.
He and I spoke a number of times last Monday and on our date on Friday about being honest and not playing games, so I would think that he will respond back at some point. I would just like to hear from him soon and have it be something other than he changed his mind about dating me. I really enjoyed spending time with him and I would like to see him again. So I will stay positive for a few more days (if by this weekend I have not received any word from him, I will probably be upset) and think about what a wonderful time I had last Friday night.
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