Thursday, November 6, 2008

Getting Back Together With an Ex = Bad Idea

Since I still don't have the internet, I used my lunch time to run a quick search on Match.com. I was going through pages of men and I came across "CMU guy" and he was active 2 weeks ago.

If you don't remember, "CMU guy" and I had a wonderful date and were going to have a second date until he got back together with his ex. So I totally wrote him a message on Match (I still have his number and maybe his personal email but I didn't want to put myself too much out there). I just said that I came across his profile, noticed he had been on a couple weeks ago, and said to drop a line if he would like to hang out again.

It would definitely be nice to hear from him - even if he's dating someone new I wouldn't mind being friends with him. Our date was a few months ago so I wouldn't be completely offended if it would just be friends.

This is why sex with the ex, as JN says, is a bad idea.

3 comments:

squire said...

True - but as I've said in the alternative - "Sex with your ex isn't that bad, you're just recycling what you've already had."

Hummingbitch said...

Seriously, people. Reduce, reuse, recycle.

Kristy said...

haha - that is true. However, it appears in this case that "CMU guy" going green turned out to be a bad idea...for him. ;)